Bob Lee

January 5th, 2012

 Bob Lee is an avid cyclist and is a community activist.  He occassionally writes and describes his life adventures.

 

This will be my 4th ride. Many individuals have asked, “Why do I partake in this ride.” There are many reasons, but here is one.
He is a eleven year old boy, who has had a brain tumour since he was six months old. He is blind in one eye and has been in and out of the hospital all his life. He is amazing! He is articulate, inquisitive, playful and inspirational. He lives life to the fullest. He looks for support instead of pity because he is proud of his strength. He grabs our hearts. Children like this are precious. It is about the the children and the cause. The search for the cure for paediatric cancer and the funding of Camp Good Times. One of the riders sheds a tear and I ask why. He pauses for a moment and hesitantly replies… “This kid doesn’t deserve it .” Awkwardly I say nothing. My thoughts are… “No child deserves to have cancer”.

 

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COPS for Cancer – 2012 – Joint team Ride

May 19th, 2012

Its morning, and there is excitement in the air.  Today, two tour groups, Cops for Cancer – Tour de Coast and Tour de Valley come together for a joint jersey presentation.  Forty-three police officers and emergency personnel riding for a common goal, finding a cure for pediatric cancer and funding a special program called Camp Goodtimes.  As we stand outside in the sun, there is a false sense of warmth.  There is an arctic cold front.   Goose pimples rise up on uncovered arms.  Some riders cuddle amongst their fellow riders and others shiver.   There are gust of winds of 50-60 km per hour. Someone comments, “Planes are having trouble landing at the airport.”  Inside, presentations are made and it is the beginning of the 2012 COPS for cancer campaign.  Riders congregate outside and the lead motor cycle escort and the team captains are giving instructions to riders such as hand signals, exchanging lead riders, avoiding crossing the white/yellow lines and most importantly, avoid crossing the paths of our motorcycle escorts.   We begin the ride in a peloton.  There is enthusiasm, hand signals are used, and shouts are heard advising of potential dangers such as pot holes and railway tracks.   And it becomes apparent that there are new riders; distances between riders are several meters apart, riders tend to stay up front longer and there is a momentarily reluctance in riding four abreast shoulder to shoulder, during exchanges of front riders.   And there are gentle reminders from experience rider to new riders to stay on the right side of the white/yellow line, thereby avoiding the upcoming speeding motor escort.    Going up the hills, we become tangled, and the idea of drafting and using the front rider’s momentum becomes a distant memory.  Riders spread apart, and strength varies.  As the hour progresses, riders become closer and exchanges become more defined and frequent.  There is laughter and there are youthful chants.  And as the ride ends, one cyclist yells out, “let’s do it again.”  Maybe today’s lesson:  In every adult, there lies an inner child in his/her heart who wants to jump out and play.  And yes, we did play!

Friendships

April 9th, 2012

I step outside and I inhale the cool morning midst.  It’s invigorating.    As I glance up, the stars speckle the night sky. I slowly move my legs which allow my bike to propel forward.  And as time slowly passes, the sun slowly comes up the horizon.  It will be a glorious day.  However, my thoughts slowly drift away to other important matters.  A friend has passed away.   In those short years, you have touched many lives.   I have only known you for four years.  You were full of life.  You were inspirational, full of insight, knowledgeable and have shown wisdom beyond your years.  You talked from the heart and we all listened. You made yourself vulnerable and as a result, you took a piece of our heart.   You taught us how to live.  We have watched you grow and  our lives have become more richer.  You gave me perspective and I looked forward to seeing you.  You filled my soul and as a result we laughed and we cried.  I wished I could have spent more time with you.   I and many will miss you and thank you for the time we had together.   But I know, whenever I see a common friend, it will remind me of you.   So really it is never a good bye.  I will see you later, Morningside. 

 

Saving, Living, Retirement

February 12th, 2012

Saving, Living, Retirement

 

As a paramedic, I have seen life.  I have seen death and everything in between.  Lately, I have been looking at the obituaries.  I wonder, “Why am I looking?”  Is it because, I am closer to death than I was in my twenties or is it because I am looking for friends in the past who have passed away.   Recently,   two friends have been told that they will have life altering changes. One in his early 40’s has MS and doctors have advised him there is a growing mass in his brain. The other, in his fifties has been advised that he has cardiac issues.  Both are close to the finish line of retirement, but yet so far away.  I know life is not fair. It is fragile. It has no guarantees.  And now, the RRSP season has begun, and financial advisors and governments are telling us to save our money for our future.  For some, there might not be a future because of some unfortunate or life changing circumstances.  So, where is that balance between saving for the future and living life?  I don’t have the answer.  But I can tell you, I have listened to patients who have told me between their medical treatments about their regrets in life.  Some wishing they had done this or done that.  Never have I been told, “I wished I had worked a little bit more.”  All I can say is: save a little or a lot, enjoy life, and enjoy those special moments each day.  There is an old saying, “whoever dies with the most toys, wins.”  I would think twice, and change it to: “whoever has the most memorable life experiences wins the treasures of living.”   I may not die as a rich man in the economic sense, but I will die as a rich man for the experience I have lived.  Question is: Which would you prefer?

 

Winter Approaches

December 31st, 2011

Winter approaches.  It is -2 degree Celsius late mid-afternoon and the skies are clear.  As I step outside, I inhale the cold, crisp, invigorating air.  The hair on my exposed arms spring up and goose pimples form as the cold air wakes me up from my slumber.  I look around and see nature’s skeletons. Each of their trunks is surrounded by their waste: dry, crisp brown decaying leaves.  It was only several months earlier that colourful leaves were hanging on their now bare limbs.  Looking upwards, the moon is shining brightly and there are fleeing, flocking, honking geese headed southwards.  My legs slowly crank the pedals of my bike and I can hear the sound of crunching dry leaves beneath my tires.  And then I am on pavement, and I hear the whistling of the bicycle wheel.  Yes, my senses are aware of my surroundings.  And it will be a good ride.  Increasing my speed, I begin to perspire and feel the warmth beneath my clothes, which is contradictory to the cold wind against my exposed skin.   I feel alive.  I see the Christmas lights: the greens, the reds, the blues, slowly shining brightly against the darkened skies.    Yes the Christmas season is here.    I am close to home.  As I go over the red bridge I smell the presence of decaying fish where several months ago they had left their eggs along the riverbed.  Their carcasses are morsels for the eagles and other animals scavenging for food.  I stop and observe the fallen windblown trees and notice the dark shadows they portray.  Reaching home, I see autumn and winter in a new light. My thoughts are: I have seen the end of the cycle of life. Where autumn and winter is the time of death and it is time for Mother Earth to rest and to rejuvenate and where one waits for spring because it is the beginning of new life.

Training Our Future Leaders

October 26th, 2011

 

Our future leaders.  In June 2011, I watched the Stanley Cup riots and wondered about our society.  I saw violence, destruction and disrespect of the law.  I was troubled.  Many of the rioters were our youth.     I wondered if the riots were caused by a few people, who led the masses.  Or was it the scenes of the demonstrations and defiance of the people  in Egypt, Syria, and other Middle East countries against their oppressing regimes, which made participating in the dismantling of our city seem acceptable.  The choices of our youth on that historic day in June can be attributed to many different factors, one of the biggest being: education.  Education plays an important role in the development of future leaders.  Some of our leaders are naturally born. However, most youth develop into leaders because schools allow this opportunity.  Students are given the chance to take charge in most things they do:  be it a group project or by being a member of an organized sport team.  June 2011 may have started off troubling, but ended with me having the privilege of being with some amazing young adults.  I can proudly call this group our future leaders.    They were receptive to new ideas, they were polite, and they very respectful.  I believe in this generation.  I know they will come closer to solving global warming, come closer to finding a cure for the numerous diseases and will come closer to solving the world hunger.  It’s up to us, the current leaders to ensure that our schools have the tools, proper funding and proper education to inspire our students to become our future great leaders.

Off Loading

October 21st, 2011

This year, some political parties have put on their agenda, “family first”.  And another school year begins. Last school year, the Coquitlam School board had implemented a two week spring break.  The reason for this extended break was to decrease the school district annual costs because of short falls in the school budget.  During this extended time off, many families have had to miss work or had to put their children into child care. The result: many families have taken the brunt of these cutbacks.  Also additional costs have put stress on the school district budget which includes an increase in numbers of teachers due to full day kindergarten, paying carbon taxes, and increase in school insurance costs with a minimal increase in school budgets.  When will it stop?  It is time for all families to say enough is enough.  Please provide adequate funding to our schools so that teachers will be able to have the tools to inspire our students to do great things.  This generation will do amazing feats.

Should Art and Music Programs Be Cut?

October 19th, 2011

Should Art and Music Programs Be Cut?

When I graduated from high school, I had no use for the arts. At university, I thought the art/liberal courses were for students who didn’t want a challenge or were looking for an easy good grade.  At the time, I believed science courses were the wave of the future. I was a science geek.  Thirty years later, after gaining some maturity, I realized the importance of the arts.  I found that the sciences gave me an understanding of logic; for example:  x + y = z.  There is law and there is logic, which I understand.  However, the arts provide me an understanding of beauty, imagery and an ability to think outside the box.  It allows me to be creative. My daughters have taught me the beauty of watching a ballet, a play, and listening to music.  I participated as a guest star in the tricity “Dancing With Our Stars” charity event for Crossroad Hospice.  From that experience, I gained a better understanding of people’s involvement in the arts. It is the arts that have allowed creativity and imagination to inspire people to design our future for today, and science to engineer it for tomorrow.  I now believe the importance of both the sciences and the arts.  The co-founder of Apple Inc., Steve Jobs, was a visionary and creative genius.   He understood that bringing both disciplines together allows and will continue to allow humanity to grow, leading us to great creations in this always advancing world.  Technology will allow us to find the solutions for global warming, cures for diseases and solve world hunger.  So the answer to the above question; is an absolute NO!

 

COPS for Cancer- Tour de Coast 2011- Day 9

October 10th, 2011

Richmond to Vancouver

The end is near and we can see the end of the tunnel.  We stop at schools and several business communities.  The message:  find a cure for pediatric cancer and fund raise for a special place called Camp Goodtimes.  The morning is cool, crisp and dry.  We leave Richmond and we are directed to the UBC endowment lands.  The peloton is tight. Motorcycle escorts are ensuring our safety between intersections.  Eyes are open and ears are listening for the sound of our escorts beeping their horns and fellow riders yelling or pointing at potholes or unexpected, unforeseen objects.  We go along Marine Drive and see the sparse populated sandy beaches, the partial skyline of North Vancouver and Vancouver   and the changing colors of the maple leaves.  Yes, autumn is coming!  We listen to cars honking, clapping of supporters’ hands and the sounds of encouraging words.  It is inspiring.  We come to the end of our amazing journey to a large and robust crowd of children.  We pass the torch.  It is these children that will continue on this amazing journey.  Some will become doctors, some will become researchers, some will become business people who will become philanthropist, some will become fundraisers and some will become donors.  It is this continuous ever revolving circle, where donors and fundraisers will allow researchers to research and doctors to keep patients alive.  I believe, we believe that this generation will come closer to finding a cure for cancer and find a cure for certain cancer.  That will be……….  AMAZING!

COPS for Cancer – Tour de Coast 2011 – Day 8

October 10th, 2011

Pitt Meadows, Maple Ridge, Port Coquitlam, New Westminster, Richmond

Another day, and as I look up, I see a strange bright object in the sky. As I inhale the cold air, my body awakens and as I exhale, I see my frosted breath.    My finger tips become numb due to the cold metal frame of the handle bars.  While we ride, I see several workers mowing the inclined grassy knoll and the smell of fresh grass lingers in my mind.  To my left, I see low fog laden fields.  And when we stop, I can see the heat of our body’s dissipate in the air.  Yes, today will be a good day!  Casey, our junior rider will be our special guest for breakfast.  As usual, he charms our hearts and his actions continuously remind us of the reasons why we partake in this nine day journey. A delicious breakfast is followed by a quick visit at Casey’s school.  We see his charm and his ability to influence the school population.  We carry on and look towards Richmond.  There are no head winds or torrential rains which allows us to view the majestic scenery over the Queensbourgh Bridge.  Onto my right, I see the endless park new foreign cars and to my left, there is the historic picture view of the work industry of the Fraser River: log booms. We continue on and I notice, the group being tighter and exchange of lead riders are quicker and smoother and there is more awareness and communication between riders.  As we travel along River Road, we see the ripples of the Fraser River and to my left the reflective view of the patchy clouds of the crystal clear still waters of the water filled cranberry fields.  The cool air is slowly being heated. Traveling through Richmond, we see many scenic areas; in Steveton, the fishing boat, grassy sandy beaches, green algae covered ditches, the pumpkin filled fields and the sweet smell of the salt air.  On the north side of Richmond, we glimpse at the descending plane, the salt air and the disgusting smell of fish being process in the fish canneries.  Yes! All my senses are alive.  Later on we are hosted at a fund raising gala, and we are given a hero’s welcome.  There are no lessons today, but there are many moments to treasure!